We human beings just by the way we stand represent all our subtle conditionings. Physical posture reveals psychological state.
Tai Chi Chuan books talk about Yin and Yang in Push Hands and we certainly know when we are in Yin and when we are in Yang in Push Hands, but throughout we try to ensure that our expressions remain in the central channel.
“Direct transmission – the highest way of learning – no words, just become.”
If you choose and fail, at least you have chosen.
If you fail to choose, you have merely failed.